It's too hot!

We burn wood for heat in the winter.  No, we don't agree on how to run it.  I don't like the house too hot nor too cold.  It's like the three bears here.  I have the door open when it is too hot.  Bob comes along and shuts it unless he is the one to open it.  Then it is okay!  I try to go and check the woodburner after he tends it and shut it down a bit.  I know he knows I have been there.  I do try not to leave any traces.  So this goes on all winter until we shut the unit down.  In the mean time I am often saying, "It's too hot in here.  I don't live in the Bahamas!"